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Part 2 - Minimum Viable Discipline: The 10-Minute Blade

January 19, 20265 min read

Minimum Viable Discipline: The 10-Minute Blade

You don’t need more willpower.

You need a smaller promise.

Most people fail at discipline for a simple reason: they try to change their life at full volume.

They build a plan that would impress a Navy SEAL, a productivity YouTuber, and their future self…

and then they attempt to execute it using the energy levels of a tired human on a Tuesday.

So it collapses.

Then they call themselves inconsistent.

Then they try again—bigger, stricter, more dramatic.

That isn’t discipline. That’s theatre.

Real discipline begins when you stop trying to win and start trying to keep your word.

That’s what minimum viable discipline is:

the smallest daily action that still counts as a kept promise.

Not a mood. Not a motivation burst.

A receipt.

The Problem With “Big Discipline”

Big discipline looks noble. It also fails spectacularly.

Big discipline says:

  • “I’m changing everything.”

  • “No sugar, gym daily, 5am, 10k steps, journal, meditate, cold plunge, new me.”

And the mind loves it because it feels like progress without requiring the one thing progress needs:

a small action today.

Big discipline is often a comfort move in disguise.

It’s a fantasy of transformation that protects you from the awkwardness of starting small.

Small is humbling.

Small feels unimpressive.

Small doesn’t feed the ego.

Which is precisely why small works.

Framework Box: The Minimum Viable Discipline Rule

THE 10-MINUTE BLADE

Choose one daily action that is:

  1. Small enough to do on your worst normal day

  2. Clear enough that “done” is obvious

  3. Real enough to create proof

  4. Repeatable enough to become automatic

Minimum viable discipline isn’t about intensity.

It’s about reliability.

Intensity makes you feel heroic.

Reliability makes you unstoppable.

The Only Two Rules You Need

Rule 1: No Zero Days

You can do less. You can do ugly. You can do tired.

But you don’t do nothing.

Because “nothing” is the doorway back to the old loop.

Rule 2: Reduce the promise before you break it

When life hits, don’t quit. Shrink.

If you miss the gym, do 10 minutes at home.

If you can’t write a page, write three lines.

If you can’t meditate, breathe for 60 seconds.

Compassion is adjusting the bar without abandoning the practice.

How To Choose Your 10-Minute Blade

Pick an arena where drift is quietly winning:

  • Body (energy, health, movement)

  • Mind (attention, anxiety, focus)

  • Work (procrastination, avoidance, output)

  • Relationships (boundaries, honesty, presence)

  • Environment (clutter, friction, chaos)

Then answer this:

What would a “small but real win” look like in 10 minutes?

If the answer is vague, you’re still in fantasy.

Make it concrete.

The 10-Minute Blade Menu (Pick One)

Choose one. Not ten. One.

Body (energy + strength)

  • 10-minute walk (outside, no podcast)

  • 50 squats + 50 wall push-ups (break into sets)

  • Stretch hips/hamstrings 10 minutes

  • Prep tomorrow’s breakfast (and actually eat it)

Mind (attention + calm)

  • 10-minute “sit and breathe” (timer on, phone away)

  • Write a worry list, then circle one controllable action

  • Read 2 pages of something real (not scrolling)

  • 5 minutes silence + 5 minutes journaling: “What am I avoiding?”

Work (output + courage)

  • Open the doc and write the first ugly paragraph

  • 10-minute “first task only” sprint

  • Send the hard email

  • Do the smallest part of the task you keep “researching”

Relationships (presence + boundaries)

  • One honest message you’ve been postponing

  • 10 minutes fully present with someone (no phone)

  • Write one boundary script and use it once

  • Apologise cleanly (no excuses, no speeches)

Environment (order + friction)

  • Clear one surface (desk/table)

  • Set up tomorrow’s “ready zone” (clothes/bag/water)

  • 10-minute declutter sprint (one drawer, one shelf)

  • Delete 25 photos / uninstall one time-sink app

Pick the one that scares you a little.

That’s usually the right one.

Not Allowed (and the Replacements)

NOT ALLOWED → REPLACEMENT

  • “It’s only 10 minutes, it doesn’t count.” → “It counts because I kept my word.”

  • “If I can’t do it properly, why bother?” → “Ugly counts. Perfect doesn’t start.”

  • “I missed yesterday, so I failed.” → “I resume today. That is the win.”

  • “I’ll do more when I feel better.” → “I do less so I don’t quit.”

Your mind will try to make small discipline feel pointless.

That’s because small discipline threatens the old identity: the you who postpones.

Good. Let it feel threatened.

The Proof Ritual (This Is Where Confidence Comes From)

After your 10 minutes, you log one line:

“I kept my word.”

That’s it.

Confidence doesn’t come from hype.

It comes from evidence.

Evidence makes you dangerous to your old excuses.

Daily Mission: Choose Your Blade

Today:

  1. Pick one 10-minute blade from the menu.

  2. Write the boundary: “Not this. Not tonight.”

  3. Do 10 minutes.

  4. Log the proof: “I kept my word.”

  5. Decide your reward consciously (rest is allowed; sabotage isn’t).

Blade done

Proof logged

Self-trust built

Closing RunwayYou are not trying to become a perfect person.

You are trying to become a person who keeps promises.

Even small ones. Especially small ones.

Because small promises kept daily become a different identity.

Not the identity of “potential.”

The identity of someone who moves.

Closing Strike

Ten minutes beats fantasies forever.

Turn This Into a Practice

If you want a simple structure to keep this going:

A) The Weekly Blade Letter

One truth. One tool. One mission. Weekly.

B) The Free 7-Day Self-Trust Sprint

Seven days of 10-minute blades + a tracker + daily prompts.

Join the letter, get the sprint, and build the habit that makes everything else possible.

Question: What’s your 10-minute blade today?

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The Later Loop

Due Date 9th Feb 2026

Friction: You keep “preparing” instead of moving.
Cause: Your brain uses quality as a legal loophole for avoidance.
Cut: Do the smallest ugly version in 15 minutes—today.
Proof: A timestamped artifact exists (draft, email, rep, page, call).

Motivation Is a Mood. Discipline Is a System.

Due Date 16th Feb 2026

Friction: You wait to feel like it.
Cause: You mistake emotion for permission.
Cut: Pick one “non-negotiable” daily action under 10 minutes.
Proof: 7 straight days logged—no heroic days required.

Your Standards Might Be a Hiding Place

Due Date 23rd Feb 2026

Friction: “If it can’t be great, why bother?”
Cause: Perfection is fear dressed as taste.
Cut: Publish the “Version 0.7” and improve in public.
Proof: One shipped thing per week for 4 weeks.

The Comfort Tax

Due Date 2nd March 2026

Friction: You keep paying with time, attention, and energy.
Cause: Comfort feels free—until the invoice arrives as regret.
Cut: Identify your top 3 comfort spends (scroll, snack, busywork). Replace one with a 10-minute practice.
Proof: Weekly totals: comfort minutes down, practice minutes up.

Friction Isn’t a Sign to Stop. It’s the Door Handle.

Due Date 9th March

Friction: Resistance shows up, you interpret it as danger.
Cause: Your nervous system confuses growth with threat.
Cut: Name the sensation (“tight chest”, “buzzing”, “dread”) and proceed anyway—slowly.
Proof: 5 “did it while uneasy” wins recorded.

The Two-Minute Betrayal

Due Date 16th March 2026

Friction: You lose the day in tiny detours.
Cause: Micro-avoidance compounds into macro-failure.
Cut: Before any “quick check”, do one action toward the main task.
Proof: 10 consecutive “first move” wins.

Busy Is Not Productive (It’s Often Just Polite Panic)

Due Date 23rd March 2026

Friction: Your calendar looks full; your life looks unchanged.
Cause: Activity soothes anxiety without producing outcomes.
Cut: Choose one measurable weekly outcome and block the work first.
Proof: Outcome completed before Friday each week.

Stop Negotiating With Yourself

Due Date 30th March 2026

Friction: “I’ll do it after…” becomes your religion.
Cause: You treat your own promises like optional terms and conditions.
Cut: Replace negotiation with a rule: Same time, same place, same start ritual.
Proof: 14 starts in 21 days.

The Identity Trap: ‘That’s Not Me’

Due Date 6th Apr 2026

Friction: You avoid actions that threaten your self-image.
Cause: The ego protects the story more than the future.
Cut: Act as the person you want to be for 5 minutes. Identity follows behaviour, not speeches.
Proof: A growing list of “I did the thing” evidence.

The Proof-of-Work Life

Due Date 13th Apr 2026

Friction: You want confidence without receipts.
Cause: You confuse thinking-about-it with building-it.
Cut: Build a “Proof Folder”: screenshots, logs, drafts, reps, shipped links.
Proof: 30 artifacts in 30 days.